sometimes, what we really want, is not actually what we need. but what we do not want, helps us much much more in whatever circumstances we are facing. we listen to people, friends depend on our advice, but those who you wanted to understand more about and care, shares their part of life stories and problems with those you concern the most and where your deep worry lies. the so called 'bad influence' type of individual.
you thought, with the piece of advice you gave would help the person to improve themselves, but the fact is, it'll make their brain not to function well enough. this is when the thinking turns more shallow. it gets worse when the voice within and the little devil succeed in persuading the person to do something unthinkable and to some extent, cross the line; unforgivable.
everyone deserves love and care. whatever decision that has been made for us, should be seen as a good thing, instead of turning it automatically to the negative side. think this way, "Why would you want me to . . . if its not for my own good?" you should be more thankful with what you have. do not think "Why he can have that and i can't?". think "there are other people who cannot even afford to have it". so be grateful.
you should not let yourself be easily influenced by the people around you. you should be strong physically and emotionally so that you can protect yourself from whatever source trying to turn your mind set to the negative part and the way you behave and act. just be yourself and trust me, people will love you more than you anticipated. losing a friend does not mean life ends there. especially the 'half-baked' friends. they do not deserve to be called as 'friends'. because a true friend cares. care means they would not allow you to get involve with anything that would hurt you. they look after you. that is what a friend is all about.
this is just what i have been thinking of lately. this is the nature of life. the cycle keeps on going without us realising what is happening until at one point when something happens, you just wish it never did, and if only life is all about the good things. but then, if it had been that way, you wonder, "What is the beauty of life?"
life is all about keeping up. whatever you do, its for survival. you eat so that your body stays healthy, you study so that you achieve something and make others proud, you sleep so that the next morning you wake up with a good start. but whatever you do, just think that it would give a big impact on others as well. for whatever situation.
whatever problems you have or difficulties, make it a norm to share them with your loved ones. those who will be there for you, forever. keeping them to yourself will cause more pain and will explode sooner or later. worse comes to worse, when vengeance is built. think before you do. consult if you have doubts. there is nothing wrong with sharing.
.wtaer tahn tkhcier is bolod
n.y.z.a.z.
18 september 2007
11:51pm
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